Monday, November 14, 2011

You have a girlfriend, WTF??

So a friend of mine, we will call her Marissa, hooked up with a friend of a friend a few weeks ago. She assumed it was a one time thing and had no problem with this. The next morning, the guy made sure to get her number from her and give her his. Therefore, Marissa thought that maybe she could hang out with this guy again. So after a few phone calls and texts, they made plans to go to dinner. Promising, no? Well, he had to cancel because of work (we confirmed was legit) and our other friend finds out that he actually has a girlfriend and he was going to take her dinner to "tell her about the girlfriend". So I ask....

Seriously?? W.T.F. Not that I approve of the original cheating, but why if you had a girlfriend would you do a phone exchange?? I never understand why people exchange phone numbers that either a. have a significant other and have no intention on hooking up again or b. do not have any interest in the person outside of the original hookup. What is the point? It just causes unnecessary drama and heartache. Girls get attached easily and giving them an open invitation to text or call you is just dumb. Also, responding to them and attempting to set up dates also does not help matters. So, if you are planning on hooking up with someone and have no intention of talking to them, PUT THE PHONE AWAY. You are only going to cause annoyance for you and heartache for them.

Why not?

So after many suggestions and statements, I finally decided to start a blog. This blog is going to pretty much cover anything that I feel like talking about, hence the title. Due to my girly nature, yet love for sports, the topics probably will be broad. I have a lot to say, so why not write it down. So if you decide to read, I hope you enjoy. If not, stop reading :).